Sum total of wisdom in this realm.
Funny, because I’m not much younger than you (soon 67), and after a lifetime of extensive reading the literature and personal observation, I am of the same opinion.
Trying to optimize lifestyle interventions, diet, exercise etc., is fiddling at the margins. Yes, you can become a bit healthier, maybe, maybe, but always keep in mind the equation of effort extended to results achieved. I am not going to exercise 10 hours a week to gain nothing much, over doing my minimum, which is 4.5-5 hours a week, because I happen to hate exercise. If you enjoy it, you should do as much as you want, even if it shortens your life. Life is for living, not spending time hating it.
I do my exercise minimum, and move on to other things. There’s the survey of what nurses heard from patients in terminal care, as they lie dying - none ever said “I wish I spent more time at the office”. And I can’t imagine lying on my deathbed regretting not spending more time at the gym or sh|tting myself with HIIT, puking my guts out. I’d rather spend that extra time with my wife, going to a museum, concert or a ballet, or just reading quietly in the garden. Do what pleases you, most of the time, you won’t impact your health or longevity very much - if you love exercise, do so, as much as you want, go wild. Same with diet. I’m lucky in that just as I happen to hate exercise, I naturally like eating a very healthy pescetarian mediterranean type diet - but, again, I feel no guilt about occassionally going to a restaurant once a month or two months to check out some special dishes, and yes, I might have some cake with my coffee. It’s not going to make any difference in the grand scheme of things.
Bad habits like smoking, excessive drinking or using street drugs - there you are gambling big time. This has the potential to really debilitate or kill you. Not for sure, because there are all too many centenarians who smoked or drank like fiends, but you are really cutting it close and gambling. I don’t, because I luckily am not drawn to that, but it’s also too risky for my risk tolerance. YMMV.
So what about all those drugs and supplements? Well, it’s a hobby. I enjoy doing it, I enjoy reading the research and talking to smart people like on this board. But deep down, I kinda suspect it won’t make much of a difference, if at all. If lucky, I might gain a year or two - if lucky. If lucky. Who knows, maybe in 10, 15, 20 years, if I’m still around, new interventions will come about to give me another boost to hang around this beautiful green planet - if you love life, you want to hang around as long as possible, and that means living the life you want, not punishing yourself with massive exercise if you hate it (just do the minimum), or starving yourself or ramming yourself into a tub of ice water or burning in a sauna. Live a reasonably healthy lifestyle, and odds are you’ll outlive the crazy longevity fanatic who just ran up a mountain to sit in a burning sauna. YMMV.